Yep, that's a nerve...

I'm all for churches getting out there - reaching the unchurched, advertising. Heck, Craig could do some really nice graphics for such a church. But the recent fliers which appeared in our mailbox were a bit over-the-top.

Now, throw out the word 'sex' and eye brows will raise, heads will turn. I don't mind the topical sermon here or there, but 5 weeks on such topics as " Why God doesn't care about your virginity" have taken the shock-factor a little too far. And by-the-way, God DOES care about your virginity - just for the record. Sadly, on further investigation, the new church's website listed the following reasons to attend their services:
Loud Music
Casual Atmosphere
Short Services
Fun for kids

Church is basically a non-alcholic bar with child care? Hmmm...

What should you expect from a service? "We wanted to start a church that was great for men - not just women and children. That's why you'll notice our media emphasis, short services..." quoted from the flier as a statement from the pastor.

I know that the 'un-churched' tend to not be interested in the book of Leviticus (as the pastor makes obvious in an interview with the local newspaper). However, are we, as the body of believers really out here to sell our message to the highest bidder? Did Paul lighten the mood when he flat out scolded the church in Corinth? Paul basically gave the Corinthians an 1st century smack down. Did he have to make the message of the cross relevant? Do you have the certainty of everlasting life? Do you know where hope comes from? Do you feel joy, peace and freedom from your mistakes? GUESS WHAT? The cross is relevant to you! It doesn't take sex to suddenly make people feel the Bible is relevant. And don't get me started on the contextualization of the scriptures. Ugh...

Yes, this hit a nerve. But what can I say - Sex sells, it even sells the Church.

What is four months?

A little surprise arrived in the mail the other day. A letter from Emmett's foster Omma. Such a wonderful woman, who shared 4 months with Emmett and still writes a letter every Christmas. I often wonder how many other foster children she has cared for since Emmett left.

I shared the letter with Emmett, and was surprised by his reaction. He began to cry. We always marvel at how well Emmett adjusted when we came home. He had the rare attachment issue, or a weepy day here or there, but ultimately he really jumped right into our life. I sometimes forget that all that he has endured in his short 5 years. I asked him why he was sad. I asked if he missed her? He said yes, and dug his head into my shoulder. I reassured him that it was ok to be sad, ok to miss her. That she was a very special person just like first Omma, and that we would always remember, respect and love her.

Emmett lived with foster Omma for 4 months, and she had a profound effect on his life. I suppose you never know what impact you'll have in the life of a child - even if only for 4 months.