Two mothers of one son

Dear Emmett's First Mom,

I can't help but think of you today. 1 year since you placed Emmett in foster care, 1 year since you relinquished him to be adopted, I pray that you find peace in your decision. I'm sure today doesn't go unnoticed by you. We are two mothers of one son. Although I have the privilege of tucking him in bed every night, you had the privilege of bearing him. I hear his giggles, you saw his first smile. I will never replace you in his heart of hearts. And that is how it should be. I hope that some day, you may see him again. I pray that in some divine web miracle, you stumble upon this blog letter (miraculously translated as well). I pray that you'll be able to read about his life with us. He's an amazing little man, and I give credit of that to you. My hope is that on this day I will be able to give you a glimpse into what his life is like now. Maybe some day you really will be able to read these annual entries and know that we love your little boy with all our hearts, and he is well cared for.

Emmett attends a daycare/preschool program 5 days a week. He is about a head taller than the other 3 year olds in his class. He's energetic, always running to and from everything. He could run and run for days if he had his choice. He is enrolled in a martial arts program through school where his teacher says he's one of the best students, he listens and is very disciplined. He can count to 20 (15 seems to be optional) and he recognizes the letters of his name. He has an eye for shapes and colors, which lends itself to his ability with puzzles. He loves cars and trucks, buses and airplanes. Of which he has many! He also likes music, singing and dancing which he does whenever possible. He even makes up his own little songs to sing!

His grandparents spoil him helplessly. All his favorite things appear at their houses when he's there. Did you know his grandparents came to Korea with us to bring Emmett here? All his grandparents were very excited and incredibly supportive. They are very proud of him, and his sweet little personality.

All in all, Emmett is growing up to be great little kid. I look forward to seeing his personality grow and change as he does. I wish that you could see these changes as well. But in your absence, I hope that I can provide him as much love and affection that you would if you were here.

God Bless -